By Любомудр. Сергей Гутников on Friday, 28 March 2025
Category: Jyotish

Why can't you build a harmonious relationship, and what does your horoscope have to do with it?

 Relationships are a rather complex multi—component topic. In each individual case, problems in this area may depend on different reasons.


And, of course, despite the fact that today we want to convey to you the vision of the problem through the astrological discipline, I would like to say that psychology, personal therapy, family therapy and working with one's worldview are not canceled. This is important, of course!

However, a large amount of psychological information on the topic of relationships is now widespread, and many are aware of working in this way.
Today we want to show you another look at this issue and draw attention to possible additional causes of discord in such an important and ubiquitous topic.


So, let's get started.

The first thing that is important to understand is that a person's life is an integrated system where everything is interconnected with each other. This is clearly shown to us by the natal chart, which has 12 houses, 12 signs, 9 planets, and all these components are components that influence each other.


There are 7 houses in each person's horoscope — this is the house of partnership (this includes both romantic stories and business).
What happens to your relationship depends on the work of this house.

Analyzing it, we can understand what you need to do to attract the desired partner, what you want from your partner, which person is right for you, and what you should give to this person in order for your union to flourish.

We always look at the planets that are in this house, if there are any, and look at the dispenser (the controlling planet) if the house is inactive.

Important! An inactive house does not mean that you do not need a relationship or that it may not work out, as some astrological schools put it. An inactive home means that this area of life is not in the foreground for you and is not a primary task in your implementation. Relationships can be very important to you, but their presence or absence is not critical.

When your partner's house is inactive, to turn it on, you need to do the following: you must fulfill your purpose, that is, use all the active positions of the horoscope, and you must also pay special attention to the dispenser 7 of the house. If this is not done, the sphere of relations will suffer.

This is how the system works! By working on active houses, you automatically influence the rest, and they start.


If you have planets in the 7th house, the picture changes a little.

Being active at home brings relationships forward. In this case, they are part of your realization, and without a proper partner by your side, it will be difficult for you to achieve the desired success and happiness. Not impossible, but difficult! This is an important clarification!

You are a partner—oriented person, and your task is to build your life hand in hand with another person. This is mandatory and applies to both the love context and the work context.

In this case, in order for the relationship to flourish, you need to find a partner based on the position of the 7th house. And in order for such a partner to want to be with you, you need to match these positions yourself — that is, develop the qualities of the planets that stand there, and have achievements in them. You have to meet
what you demand!



Also, in order for the relationship to be in order, the partners to be satisfied with each other or to be able to attract each other properly, it is important that both the man and the woman pay special attention to the signs by which they attract the attention of the opposite sex.

A woman attracts the attention and desire of a man through the position of Venus (the planet of femininity and beauty) and its power, therefore, special attention should be paid to the activation and manifestation of grahi (the planet). It is also worth understanding whether Venus is falling, and if so, it is necessary to work on its harmonization (if you have Venus in the fall (Virgo sign), you will find recommendations for studying it on our website in decoding the map).

Also, the male sex reads Mars (planet of energy) in the female: and if a woman has no energy, for example, if Mars falls and/or her resource is completely depleted, she begins to suck the vitality out of the man, and the partner next to her languishes. Therefore, it is important to rock your Mars, especially in a weak position. (If you have Mars in the fall (Cancer sign), you will find recommendations for studying it on our website in the decryption of the map).

In addition, I would also like to add a little bit about Jupiter in the female horoscope.
Through his position, a woman activates male energy in her chart.
Therefore, we are working on the house of Jupiter: the position must be activated and manifested in life; you can also find out exactly how on our website.


What does a woman pay attention to?

Men go to Jupiter.
To what extent it corresponds to its Jupiter. It is very important for a man to have achievements in this field.

To Venus. Venus is femininity. The stronger Venus is, the more a man understands and feels a woman. Is this graha weakened? Develop this skill!


If you have problems in a relationship — you can't meet your dream partner, you can't build a union, or you have difficulty interacting, be sure to pay attention to all the points that we described above.


And also answer yourself honestly the question: to what extent do you have a healthy relationship with yourself and to what extent are you self-actualized?

Please remember that everything always starts with yourself!
If you have a destructive relationship with yourself, if you don't know yourself well, if you don't realize your purpose, and if you're unhappy, it will all affect your relationships with others.


On our website, you can calculate your birth chart and get its full transcript.
Horoscope analysis will help you to study your personality more deeply and understand how you need to act in order to achieve the full realization of your destiny.


You will also be able to analyze your 7th house and find out what you need to do in order to properly activate the partnership area.
If the house is active, read the meanings of the planets in the decoding.
If inactive, look at which constellation stands in the house, look for the graha to which this constellation belongs, and work with it, with the location house and the connections it creates.

With love, your Saturn.Love
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